http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/feed/? Latest topics Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:59:52 GMT 10 http://hitskin.com/themes/13/09/99/i_logo.png http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/feed/? http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/according-your-date-s-age-and-lifestyle-t67.htm Admin For your very first meeting it is suggested that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive and relaxing.Chose the place for the first date according your date's age and lifestyle. Maybe you don't know too much about the women you are going to ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her, looking to how she is dressing and watching the type of people she is hanging around. Locations for Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:59:52 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/according-your-date-s-age-and-lifestyle-t67.htm#67 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/according-your-date-s-age-and-lifestyle-t67.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/you-may-wish-to-leave-early-t66.htm Admin Particularly on a first date, you may wish to leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for both guys and girls is always useful.Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Sporting events, concerts and picnics are great places for first dates. You can talk, and being outside, everything feels less claustrophobic. It's easy and relaxed and clothing usually isn't a ... Locations for Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:59:23 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/you-may-wish-to-leave-early-t66.htm#66 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/you-may-wish-to-leave-early-t66.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/it-makes-a-difference-t65.htm Admin It makes a difference if you can find something that she will remember for a long time. If in your area is an event like circus, carnival, festival, don't miss it and you two will have more fun than at a coffee place that's for sure. There wouldn't be any pressure; you’ll only have to enjoy the company. Locations for Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:58:49 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/it-makes-a-difference-t65.htm#65 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/it-makes-a-difference-t65.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/dating-late-in-the-evening-t64.htm Admin If you are dating late in the evening make sure that you walk in places where your date is feeling safe. Don't forget that she does not know you very well and being alone with you in a place that is not public can make her feel insecure. It is normal.By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again. Locations for Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:58:22 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/dating-late-in-the-evening-t64.htm#64 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/locations-for-dating-f14/dating-late-in-the-evening-t64.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/ask-a-lot-of-questions-t63.htm Admin I think it is important to ask the other person a lot of questions about themselves when you first start dating. This helps keep the conversation flowing so there are no awkward silences, and you learn a lot about the other person. Ideas Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:57:31 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/ask-a-lot-of-questions-t63.htm#63 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/ask-a-lot-of-questions-t63.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/frugal-date-ideas-t62.htm Admin Frugal Date Ideas For Artists * Attend your local art school’s year-end show for a peek into the minds of up-and-coming artisans. * Contact your local chamber of commerce for a walking tour map of your community, highlighting areas like the local museums or architectural highlights. * Volunteer yourselves as models for a hairdressing school. * Take in amateur night at the coffeehouse, bar or comedy club. You could also get up on stage yourself and belt out a tune, tell a joke or ... Ideas Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:56:56 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/frugal-date-ideas-t62.htm#62 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/frugal-date-ideas-t62.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/dating-rules-t61.htm Admin 1. First Dates Should Be Affordable A first date is simply that - a primary interaction to get to know someone better. Leave the big bucks for later should things work out and try to keep the total expenses affordable for both parties, especially if you plan on going dutch. 2. Find a Place With a Talkable Space You'll get shushed at the movies and have to yell in a crowded bar. Think about your first date location and whether or not you can comfortably talk in it without too much interruption. ... Ideas Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:56:18 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/dating-rules-t61.htm#61 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/ideas-f13/dating-rules-t61.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/something-unexpected-just-happend-t60.htm Admin I really need some advise here. My girlfriend just broke up with me a week ago last Tuesday. I explained everything in another post in the "Breaks and Breaking Up" forum under the topic "Very Difficult Loss". Anyway, I have tried giving her some space since then. I wouldn't call except maybe every couple of days to see how her Christmas went or see how she was doing. She also did the same with me. I thought space was what she needed most. Anyway, New Years Eve she called asking ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:55:08 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/something-unexpected-just-happend-t60.htm#60 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/something-unexpected-just-happend-t60.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/nc-brought-her-back-begging-t59.htm Admin My ex broke it off with me earlier this month. We've been having all sorts of issues for the past couple of months that led up to it. Finances, communication, uncertainties on my part, pot smoking on hers... the usual. At the beginning of Dec, she started to see someone else. For the weeks prior she was giving me mixed "I want in, I want out" messages. I was fine with "I want out" but I asked her to tell me straight up that that is what she wanted so I could move on. ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:54:22 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/nc-brought-her-back-begging-t59.htm#59 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/nc-brought-her-back-begging-t59.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/did-she-show-me-her-cards-t58.htm Admin Hi, this is my first time posting. I looked around allot on this forum but didn't see anything that is related to my question. Okay, so here is my situation. My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago back in late November. We have been a couple for at-least 5 months. We had a very good relationship. She loved me and I loved her etc. It did not end on a sour note for both of us. Basically what happened is she just needed some space to reevaluate some things in her life. So its not ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:53:35 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/did-she-show-me-her-cards-t58.htm#58 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/did-she-show-me-her-cards-t58.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/running-out-of-chances-to-give-t57.htm Admin Should I begin dating my ex-husband? We have two children together but our relationship has been everything but simple. He has been married 3 times I thought I was his first but I was his second. ( Not that i am not smart but he is just that good) He was married dring early adulthood and for some reason he was never honest about it. Well anyway, I had a sone for him in 1999, a daughter in 2000, a miscarriage in 2001,c got married to him in 2003, divorced him in 2004, where he remarried another ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:53:02 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/running-out-of-chances-to-give-t57.htm#57 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/running-out-of-chances-to-give-t57.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/i-want-my-ex-back-more-than-anything-t56.htm Admin Ok, so this will be a little long winded... here goes: I met my ex 2 years ago. I was 19 and she was 23. We started out as good friends, then great friends, then we had a few physical moments. Then we just started hanging out all the time and it just blossomed into a great relationship. However, I'd never been in a serious relationship before and... well, I won't sugar coat any of it. I took her for granted, didn't appreciate her the way she deserved, and she lost her trust in me. Because ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:51:57 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/i-want-my-ex-back-more-than-anything-t56.htm#56 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/i-want-my-ex-back-more-than-anything-t56.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/its-been-a-long-road-t55.htm Admin I think this might be a good place to post this, if not feel free to move it to where it needs to be! But I am hoping someone here can give me some keen advice on what to do, because I am so confused and have been for a while! My name is Sara, and I am 22. My story begins back in Kindergarten, there was a guy and his name is Chandon, We were best friends, and cared about each other very much. When we were about 7-8, he moved away! No warning or anything, I was devastated. I never stopped ... Second Chances Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:51:13 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/its-been-a-long-road-t55.htm#55 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/second-chances-f12/its-been-a-long-road-t55.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/should-i-keep-living-with-him-t54.htm Admin Hi, It's really comforting to see I'm not the only one going through a hell of a time.. Just wondering if anyone has any advice from their own experiences for me. My partner and I seperated after 8 years (together since we were 16 & 17) about two months ago, although we are still living together. At first it was amicable and although it was tough, I was happy that I'd made the right decision. I feel that we want different things in life. It's been difficult for me to find ... Separation and Divorce Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:49:55 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/should-i-keep-living-with-him-t54.htm#54 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/should-i-keep-living-with-him-t54.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/falling-apart-t53.htm Admin First time poster. I've been married to my wife for 3 and a half years. We've been together for over 5 years. We've known one another for about 8 years. There have been some rough patches due to deaths in her family and some financial troubles when I lost my job, but we always worked it out. Then a couple weeks ago she shows up at like 5am in the morning. I couldn't sleep and had to work from home that day because we only have one car and she had it so I didn't know what was going on. See ... Separation and Divorce Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:49:18 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/falling-apart-t53.htm#53 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/falling-apart-t53.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/seriously-do-most-younger-people-these-days-give-up-on-marriage-so-easily-why-t52.htm Admin Please help me!!! I've posted a post on here (it's at the bottom of this post). This is a continuation. After what went down at the wedding that night (which was totally uncalled for on both sides) ; my husband now wants to divorce me b/c he wants to divorce my parents. Not really me; but the only way to divorce them is by divorcing me. I myself do not believe in divorce. I want to work things out. I love him; even though no one probably understands that. I'm just so down and heartbroken ... Separation and Divorce Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:48:39 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/seriously-do-most-younger-people-these-days-give-up-on-marriage-so-easily-why-t52.htm#52 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/seriously-do-most-younger-people-these-days-give-up-on-marriage-so-easily-why-t52.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/rules-i-ve-learned-to-live-by-t51.htm Admin 1. If crying won't make her stay? They won't make her come back! 2. Don't date the "pay-roll" 3. Ain't no one monkey makes a show! 4. Don't beg someone to let you "love' them! 5. There's no shortage of good women, but there sure as Hell a shortage of good men! 6. Good men/women are like good jobs! They're out there! But they generaly are already taken, and the ones that have them? They plan on keeping them, have had them a good long while, and your just ... Separation and Divorce Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:47:32 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/rules-i-ve-learned-to-live-by-t51.htm#51 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/separation-and-divorce-f11/rules-i-ve-learned-to-live-by-t51.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/i-don-t-know-what-is-happening-t50.htm Admin Hi, well I'm (was?) in my first relationship ever... (nearly 1 1/2 years) and we had all the way some issues because he has allergies and I had to adjust my diet (like no products that may even contain nuts and considering that i was living in japan at that time not being able to read lables i had to resort to only fresh food - healthy but just doesnt always work like when u go on trips or so cause also bread etc dont work... but thats another story), and also because he is not too happy ... Breaks and Breaking Up Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:44:42 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/i-don-t-know-what-is-happening-t50.htm#50 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/i-don-t-know-what-is-happening-t50.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/regret-of-the-dumper-t49.htm Admin any story how the dumper regret of dumping his/her gf/bf? Breaks and Breaking Up Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:43:39 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/regret-of-the-dumper-t49.htm#49 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/regret-of-the-dumper-t49.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/is-she-still-interested-t48.htm Admin I was seeing a girl for about 3 months, she broke things off with me. Yesterday morning around 8:00AM while I was driving to work I accidentally dialed her number from my cell, I quick disconnected once I realized who I was calling but it must have went through and showed on her phone as a missed call, later on that day at night, it was around 9:00pm, she sends me a text stating that "I saw that you called this morning, just wanted to make sure everything was okay" Well, she must ... Breaks and Breaking Up Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:42:51 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/is-she-still-interested-t48.htm#48 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/is-she-still-interested-t48.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/break-up-confusion-t47.htm Admin Hello, I need some advice on my recent breakup. To make a long story short, my boyfriend and I broke up after 4 years of being in a consistant relationship. Of course I am devastated, hurt, mad, etc. But the thing is we never verbally agreed to this break-up. We just stopped calling one another. Granted we did have an argument before we broke-up but we saw each other after that. After we saw each other that was the last time we spoke. On New Year's Eve he sent me a "Happy New Year" ... Breaks and Breaking Up Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:41:50 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/break-up-confusion-t47.htm#47 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/break-up-confusion-t47.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/true-love-doesn-t-have-a-happy-ending-t46.htm Admin I am not sure why I am posting here other than to say I am feeling lost. My long-distance girl friend and I broke up around the holidays. I did the no contact thing for about a month and a half but then broke it when her birthday came up. I sent her a long turgid letter expressing the good and bad in our relationship but letting her know that I was willing to end long distance and move permanently to be with her. We spoke shortly thereafter on the phone. She said she loved me. I loved her. I ... Breaks and Breaking Up Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:40:51 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/true-love-doesn-t-have-a-happy-ending-t46.htm#46 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/breaks-and-breaking-up-f10/true-love-doesn-t-have-a-happy-ending-t46.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/advice-on-how-to-proceed-t45.htm Admin I am hoping to get advice on how to proceed - I have been on 8-9 dates with a man - we have been intimate once (unplanned..just happened) We are both divorced and have not talked about being exclusive (I realize the intimate thing should not have happened). Due to career issues, he is extremely stressed, tired and almost withdrawn. I do like him, and would like to continue dating (and discuss soon the exclusivity topic - I do not want to allow that level of intimacy to occur again without this). ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:38:07 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/advice-on-how-to-proceed-t45.htm#45 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/advice-on-how-to-proceed-t45.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/i-really-need-to-know-t44.htm Admin I have been chatting, emailing with people online for several years now. I even met a few of those guys and one time I fell in love badly. It took me forever to get over him but I was willing to try again. The thing is, I have two children and therefor I don't have much of a chance to go out and meet someone. So I thought online dating would work just fine. I think I am decent looking and do get responses from guys. AT FIRST! And here is the problem, which I just don't understand at ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:37:24 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/i-really-need-to-know-t44.htm#44 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/i-really-need-to-know-t44.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/should-i-move-on-t43.htm Admin I was seeing a guy for several months. Last night we had a talk where he told me that he is not ready for a commitment as he just got out of a serious relationship. Personally, I'm not sure if I was at that stage with him myself but was just enjoying his company, having fun. It's good to know where we stand now. He said given that, its up to me on whether we still spend some time together still (no commmitment) or not. I know he enjoys my company and he has always treated me well. My intention ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:35:51 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/should-i-move-on-t43.htm#43 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/should-i-move-on-t43.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/how-do-i-handle-this-t42.htm Admin Hi Friend, Why you are very angry...Please stop that matter.I know every person have the quality that he/she can manage all the matters.So you should wake up your mind then do the true thing as you wish your good mind and only for good support.. Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:34:53 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/how-do-i-handle-this-t42.htm#42 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/how-do-i-handle-this-t42.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/out-of-character-t41.htm Admin I'm not sure why I picked "dating strategies" as the category for this post, as I'm not sure I would ever recommend this one! I did something completely out of character for me last week, and whilst I'm seeing the funny side, I've now also got myself in deeper, which will probably involve further out of character behaviour!! But let me start at the beginning. We had our office xmas party on Thursday night. Just to explain, whilst there are only 6 people working for my company, ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:34:14 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/out-of-character-t41.htm#41 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/out-of-character-t41.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/first-date-ideas-t40.htm Admin I am a 19 year old student who has never been out on a date and has only kissed a few girls in clubs etc., nothing more. There is a girl that i fancy like mad in one of my lectures and i have no problems talking to her and as well as this i think she may like me too. I want to ask her out, however, i have no idea where to go on a first date. the most annoying thing is that i have loads of friends in relationships but none of them ever mentioned their first dates and so i never get any ideas ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:32:49 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/first-date-ideas-t40.htm#40 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/first-date-ideas-t40.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/disclosing-disability-t39.htm Admin I'd like to ask everyone when they would tell a date about a disability. I am in my late 40's and have not worked since 1997 due to disability. I was married for most of this time so no problem. Now divorced and starting to date. It's a big issue. I am at a loss as to the answer to the question "what do you do, where do you work,how long have you been retired,where did you retire from,your to young to be retired" etc. What I have said to date; is told them the whole story,another ... Dating Strategies Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:31:27 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/disclosing-disability-t39.htm#39 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-strategies-f9/disclosing-disability-t39.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-worth-it-to-date-an-exchange-student-t38.htm Admin i recently began dating a norwegian student that is coming to my school for one year and i really like him. we get along very well, and he likes me as well. but he is leaving back to norway in 10 months, and so i am wondering if it is worth it to be with him now, because either we will have a really depressing breakup later or have a long-distance relationship where i could see him MAYBE once a year. or is it better to just never get involved with him since he is moving back? (i live in america) Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:28:59 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-worth-it-to-date-an-exchange-student-t38.htm#38 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-worth-it-to-date-an-exchange-student-t38.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/i-have-a-story-to-telllong-t37.htm Admin I cannot believe the year i've had so far. im 17, im currently a few weeks from finishing year 12 (YIPPEE!!) i know i should be studying right now but truth is ive done biology all day and now im just chilling. lol. anyway my story goes something like this: i fell in love with a boy called sam when i was only 11 years old. it was year 6 of primary school, he was the new boy. it wasnt love at first sight or anything cos well actually he was REALLY short for his age and i was REALLY tall for ... Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:28:18 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/i-have-a-story-to-telllong-t37.htm#37 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/i-have-a-story-to-telllong-t37.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/long-distance-hurt-t36.htm Admin Hmm bit of an old topic but I've got a story thats pretty relevant and it'd be good to get off my chest. Where to begin? Well I'm in the US Army National Guard, and about 10 months ago I decided to take up an offer to goto a school out in Georgia for radios and computers. I'd also started talking to this girl a little bit just as friends around the same time. So January comes by and I get shipped down to the school for about 4 months. I was pretty excited to get out of the place I was living ... Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:27:39 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/long-distance-hurt-t36.htm#36 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/long-distance-hurt-t36.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/quick-advice-t35.htm Admin Hi everyone, Here is my situation in a nutshell. My girlfriend and I have been LDR on and off now for over 5 years. Everytime we are getting close to ending the LDR part of the relationship and moving to be with one another something happens. Either I get these horrible self doubting issues where i basically lock up and cease to function. Or we get into a terrible argument just days before hand when we're supposed to be with one another. I have by no means been an angel... I've lied to her ... Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:27:07 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/quick-advice-t35.htm#35 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/quick-advice-t35.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/am-i-being-paranoid-t34.htm Admin Hey, i'm new to the forum.. hoping you guys can shed some insight on my situation. I'm seeing a girl long-distance, we met about 6 months ago through a mutual friend.. we see each other for about a week every 5 or 6 weeks. She's a 1 hour flight from me and we both make efforts to see each other. She's 21, i'm 25. Everything is going well and she's been talking about moving down here next yr. However i've started really liking her, more than i have anyone in ages but with that has come a ... Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:26:35 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/am-i-being-paranoid-t34.htm#34 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/am-i-being-paranoid-t34.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-wrong-t33.htm Admin ok so to get this u may have to read my other post (warning its long but memorable) in this section but in a nutshell: -> i fell in love when i was 11 im now nearly 18, he was the most amazing person i have ever known. anyway we were together about a year and then i let him go which to this day i have regretted painfullly. We were still friends, then his family moved to canada (im in australia) about a year after we broke up. after 5 years of seperation and talking whenever we could ... Long Distance Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:26:02 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-wrong-t33.htm#33 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/long-distance-f8/is-it-wrong-t33.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/words-of-advice-on-dating-online-t32.htm Admin Dating online has made the world a smaller place since that special someone is just a click away. If one decides to try online dating, here are few tips to remember; 1.Take it slow There are a lot of nice people online but there are also some bad people who just take advantage of others. To be sure whether the person one is corresponding with is for real or just playing games, it is best to look out for inconsistencies. If at any instance, there is a feeling of doubt or something ... Online Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:25:13 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/words-of-advice-on-dating-online-t32.htm#32 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/words-of-advice-on-dating-online-t32.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/blind-date-vs-internet-date-t31.htm Admin I thought this would be a good Commercial for a dating site Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date….a friend of a friend of a friend. You, foolishly, accept. Now there you are. It’s less than one hour since you were introduced. You are sitting in a Thai restaurant and you hate Thai food. The entrée has not yet been served. His idea of enlightened conversation is who will be in the final four…you aren’t into sports. He ... Online Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:24:30 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/blind-date-vs-internet-date-t31.htm#31 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/blind-date-vs-internet-date-t31.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cyberspace-and-attraction-t30.htm Admin Can you really be attracted to someone in cyberspace? How can that be realistic? Don't you naturally project only good/nice things at the person on the other end of the computer because really you don't know who they are so you make them to be as you wish they were? I know it happens but I am just wondering how it works. What are the rules in cyberspace? Online Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:23:58 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cyberspace-and-attraction-t30.htm#30 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cyberspace-and-attraction-t30.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cybering-cheating-t29.htm Admin I have a question... since I am new to this whole serious relationship thing I was wondering.... Is cybering cheating??? Online Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:23:23 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cybering-cheating-t29.htm#29 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/cybering-cheating-t29.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/i-ve-got-a-date-of-sorts-lol-t28.htm Admin ok, well I think I mentioned somewhere that I'm on one of the many dating sites. Well every month they have a night out at one of the pubs not too far from here, just a get together really where we can all relax, have a chat and who knows, maybe meet the love of our lives lol. Anyway, yesterday I received a message on the dating site from someone who lives just a few miles away from me. He'd been looking at my profile and wanted to know more. So, I gave him my msn details and we were chatting ... Online Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:22:46 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/i-ve-got-a-date-of-sorts-lol-t28.htm#28 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/online-dating-f7/i-ve-got-a-date-of-sorts-lol-t28.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/views-sought-on-my-situation-t27.htm Admin hi all, I just wanted to get some views on a situation I've recently experienced there's a girl I'm friends with (I wouldn't say close friends, really, but good friends) - we've been so for maybe 18 months. And I'd say for about 2 years I've found her very attractive. Not only is she physically attractive, but she's just a really, really lovely person. anyway, about a year ago I gave her some pretty clear signals that I was interested in being more than friends with her, though ... Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:19:29 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/views-sought-on-my-situation-t27.htm#27 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/views-sought-on-my-situation-t27.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/an-opportunitya-chance-t26.htm Admin I know this may sound a little silly....but do you actually wait for a chance to speak to someone which you want to know or do you create the chance yourself? This question actually came to me recently when i met this girl....the problem is that i met her on the orientation 2 years back and we are actually conversing just 2 days ago when she came over to ask me about operating the scanner...and we have so much to talk about....about things we saw together 2 years back till now....and even ... Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:15:31 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/an-opportunitya-chance-t26.htm#26 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/an-opportunitya-chance-t26.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/i-ve-hurt-him-and-it-s-all-my-fault-t25.htm Admin
What should I do?

I didn't really notice how much I liked him until this happened now I feel like a]]> Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:14:53 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/i-ve-hurt-him-and-it-s-all-my-fault-t25.htm#25 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/i-ve-hurt-him-and-it-s-all-my-fault-t25.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/always-at-the-wrong-time-t24.htm Admin Why is it when you don't want a relationship and are content to be single guys seem to start swarming!!! It's so strange. All the attention is flattering but it makes me feel uncomfy. At the moment I'm focusing on myself and my own life for once and dating or a relationship with any guy just isn't something I need Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:09:26 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/always-at-the-wrong-time-t24.htm#24 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/always-at-the-wrong-time-t24.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/can-anyone-else-relate-to-this-t23.htm Admin OK so I guess I should start this with a little background. About nine years ago I sort of gave up on dating. I retreated into the safety of my appartment and burried myself in video games and my career. I thought I was happy being alone and prety much figured that I would be that way the rest of my life. But a few weeks before my 42nd birthday I had sort of an awakening. One night I was feeling so alone and despised what I had let myself become. I was 275 ounds, looked like hell, and felt ... Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:08:53 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/can-anyone-else-relate-to-this-t23.htm#23 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/can-anyone-else-relate-to-this-t23.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/if-you-had-a-big-date-saturday-night-t22.htm Admin and your date showed up 2 hours late would you still go? Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:07:58 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/if-you-had-a-big-date-saturday-night-t22.htm#22 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/if-you-had-a-big-date-saturday-night-t22.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/your-on-the-first-date-and-everything-s-going-great-until-t21.htm Admin he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person? Dating Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:07:24 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/your-on-the-first-date-and-everything-s-going-great-until-t21.htm#21 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/dating-f6/your-on-the-first-date-and-everything-s-going-great-until-t21.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/when-s-the-right-time-for-a-first-kiss-t20.htm Admin I'm really happy to find this thread as I'm new to the board and logged on to ask the very question of 'how long before the first kiss?' I'm 52, she's 44, both divorced, met online and spoke for hours and hours for several weeks before I moved to her town (A long planned move, NOT related to meeting her!). When we met in person, it was weird. I thought she didn't like me (in person) and she thought I didn't like her. Long story short, we didn't talk for a couple of months after that night, ... Kisses Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:06:02 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/when-s-the-right-time-for-a-first-kiss-t20.htm#20 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/when-s-the-right-time-for-a-first-kiss-t20.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-do-s-don-ts-t19.htm Admin Don'ts Don't use too much tongue. Don't mash your lips against your partner's. Don't look terrified when the other person approaches you for a kiss. Do not talk about a first kiss with the person you're going to kiss for the first time. This will ruin the excitement and may turn down expectations. Don't salivate all over your partner while kissing. Don't just let your partner do all the work during the kiss. Don't eat garlic or other harsh foods before a kiss. Don't remain ... Kisses Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:05:20 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-do-s-don-ts-t19.htm#19 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-do-s-don-ts-t19.htm http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-basics-t18.htm Admin There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while close-mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing. Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is ... Kisses Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:04:46 GMT http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-basics-t18.htm#18 http://freedatingtoday.forumactif.com/kisses-f5/kissing-basics-t18.htm